Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Leaving...on a jetplane..

Right. Will be going off for NS. I'm going to Sabah. Kem Wawasan, Papar. I'm supposed to be at Bukit Jalil at 8 am XD. Before I go, here are some pictures to laugh over while I'm gone =)


I may look like an idiot, but at least I'm a manly idiot =)


Having Baskin's XD


Loookit that O_O The patch can be used to heal your knee while you're out at night cuddling ^^


I'm actually sitting on top of a whale. That's why there's more foam behind me as it goes back into the water. Seriously. =)


AHRRR!!! Pun san Forever!!

Thursday, March 06, 2008

Another trip ?

Yeah. We're off to another waterfall today. Hope I don't fall off , eh ?

Cyas when we get back.

I'm bringing salt and popping every leech I see.

Monday, March 03, 2008

What to do when you're single on a Saturday ?

It was a Saturday. The day before, we had discussed about going to the Hulu Langat look out point. Mun Fai and Marcus had heard of it. But only I had passed by it before. It was on the way to my driving centre. Those 2 enrolled at different places, so they didn't pass it on the way.

We set off in the morning. Usually my driving instructor take me there by way of the highway next to Safari *shivers*. But the others didn't know the way from there, so we took another route. I couldn't show them the way because the last time the instructor took me there, I kept on looking out the window.

Anyways, we finally reached the place. It's not bad. We parked at the base of the place, thinking we couldn't drive up . We found out that we could after walking to where the restaurants were. Some pics.



From the lookout point. It's a 4 storey wooden structure. PGRM is to the left. Not really sure if you can see it.

After going to the lookout point, we decided to go to a park Marcus had heard of. Along the way, we passed by this lake. It's very beautiful. I've passed by it before. Too bad we couldn't get down to have a better look.



We never got to that park, because along the way, we saw a signboard for a waterfall. Gabai waterfall I think. We passed by the junction to Gabai earlier, but we didn't really believe that that junction was it, because an old guy with a weird look was looking at our car and pointing towards the road.

But anyways, we had to look around for petrol first before doing anything. After driving for a bit, we still couldn't find any petrol stations. So we stopped by a police station to ask for directions.



This school is located just opposite the police station we went to. 1956 O_o.

After finding the petrol station and getting ourselves some snacks, we headed for the waterfall. Turns out the creepy dude was right, that was the road to the waterfall. The dude himself was nowhere to be seen. *Cue X-Files theme*

We parked our car and got the snacks. After we got down, we immediately went to the toilet. It's 50 sen per person O_O. 50 sen! That toilet in Bukit Bintang is only 20 sen and it has an air-con unit. This prompted us to ask, "Why not relieve ourselves in the river?".

At the base of the waterfall, aside from the toilet, there was also a karaoke machine. Rm 2.00 per song. Many Malay people were there belting out tunes. Horrible tunes. In fact, we never saw another chinese person there.



This is the foot of the waterfall. There are stone stairs leading up to the next level just to the left, off screen.




This is the second level. There was a lot of mist. Everytime I exhaled, my glasses would cloud in 3 seconds.



Same level. I was standing on a rock looking directly at it. It was awesome.


This is a fruit from a tree in the same level. That's not water hanging off the fruit. None of us dared to touch it.



Mun Fai and Marcus taking a breather before we continued up the steps. Yes, Marcus stole that Lat Kampung Boy card thingey. Okay, he didn't steal it. He picked it.



Me and Marcus. He gets to be in both of the pictures only because he's the one driving XD.



The stone steps ended at this level. That's a mud stair leading to the other levels. Marcus and Mun Fai didn't want to go up any further, so I went myself. I love doing this.



This is the first level from where the guys stopped. In the upper left corner is the mud stairs from where I climbed up.



This is the third level from where they stopped. Rapids. And all the stones were so slippery O_o. I was afraid of falling down.

At times, to get across to some rocks, I had to take off my shoes and walk across. I was afraid of leeches getting me though O_o.




This is the highest level I went to before I turned back. There was nobody here, so I was afraid that if I went on and got injured, I couldn't get any help. In short, I was scared XD. Next time we go, I'm dragging their arses with me. I wanna go all the way.




.. COWARDS !!! AHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!.....

Back at the base, those 2 were walking around barefoot. I took off my shoes and joined them. That's when I fell into the water. Imagine O_O. I climbed all the way up and back down, and I didn't slip. At the base, I fell. Dammit.

I was sitting on a rock in the middle of the river when I looked at my leg. Alas, a damned leech had got me =(. I quickly flicked it off. But the bugger had done it's job.



Damn, I say.



What's funnier ? I flicked it onto Marcus' pants. It stayed there sucking at the pants. Once I had taken this picture, Marcus tried to use a leaf to take it off. The sly bugger wouldn't budge. But when his hand was near, it immediately attached itself to his hand. We all laughed. Well me and Mun Fai did, Marcus joined in after he got the bugger off.

After , we left the place. We promised to come back again. With girls. =P.

The day was packed. They sent me home first. I took a bath and dressed up, cause we were gonna go to SMK Connaught. Their Chinese society had a performance or something. They told me to bring the camera so I did. There were a few problems though when we reached. Dress codes.

All pants had to extend beyond the knees. So I was out. Also, no slippers. So 3 of us were out. Marcus, Siong Tat and Brian. And the prices was 15, not 10 like what Soon Keong told us, so we decided to leave. Mun Fai got a surprise. A bad surprise anyways. We parked a about 50 metres up to discuss whether to say. And then, _THIS_ happened!! = O



On the left, we see Soon Keong's Chevrolet. On the right, we see Marcus lying down. Therefore, we can conclude that Soon Keong knocked Marcus down O_O. *Disclaimer = No one named Marcus was hurt in the taking of this picture. And if he was, it's his own damned fault =P*.

In the end, we still didn't go to Connaught. We went to P. Road for dinner. The luk mei there has been degraded =(. Anyways, that's all for now O_o. If I didn't do it in one shot, I wouldn't finish it at all. If the loading of this post slowed your comp a bit, I apologize.

Sunday, March 02, 2008

Ahhhhh....

I'm a dumb basturd. I know how much it'll hurt me but still I go on.

Every single time I think about you, I feel helpless...

Whenever I get wind that you're going out with someone, I feel jealous...

I really envy whoever that gets to be close to you...

And I really wonder why I'm still so stupid.

Why do I die a little when you don't reply to my smses ?

When I try to talk to you...I don't know what to say. I'd like to tell you so much..to open up to you.. but I can't get through to you..

I'm extending my hand all the way...But you won't even look at it..much less grasp it..

Why do I have hope ? That's the dumbest thing. I know the answer already, so why ?

You already told me to give up...so why ?...WHY ??

Sometimes....When I'm outside..I get the feeling that I'll see you just around the corner .. and I keep on going and going..waiting for the stupidity of it sink in..

I'm tired....I don't want to take it anymore. But how do I stop ?

When I'm not thinking of you, it's still tolerable.

When I do think of you, the pain is unbearable.

Everything comes back to me...

How lucky I feel when I get to walk you to your car...

How my heart flutters when I bump into you sometimes...

Whenever we went out as a group, I felt like I had struck the lottery when I got to walk with you to the LRT Station..

To be able to treat you to a meal or drink is my pleasure, entirely...

I can feel my heart beat so strongly when you're standing close to me..

The day we went roller skating was one of my happiest. I didn't even care if my feet were injured... All I knew was that as long as I could walk with you..beside you.. pain was nothing... and you asked me if I wanted to take a taxi home...Pah..O_O

I ran in the rain to buy you stuff... I don't mind getting a fever. Your smile can cheer me up anytime..

That necklace I sent that year meant something...

The birthday card I sent the year after meant so much more...

3 words would make me the luckiest, happiest person on Earth.

But tear drops fall.... because I know that I'll never get to hear you say those 3 words.

Saturday, March 01, 2008

女人認為男人越愛得久就越沒有情趣。
這個現象的成因可分為兩個層面:
女人的層面和男人的層面。
從女人的層面去看, 男人在戀愛穩定後會變得很懶惰。
在追求時期出現過的驚喜及創意, 沒有了。
在熱戀階段出現過的細緻和心力, 沒有了。
他們再不會時時陪妳逛街, 也甚少再與妳通一個很長很長的電話。
男人越戀越歸於平淡。

到最後, 女人便會發現大部份的男人只愛躲在家裡休息, 就連出外吃頓飯也懶得去想。
女人覺得男人會在愛情得到手後事事變得沒有要求, 沒有所謂。
其實, 這也是事實。
女人則剛好相反。
從男人的層面去看, 女人愛得越久就越多要求。
在接受追求的階段, 只要女人對那個男人受落, 便不惜紆尊降貴, 就算去茶餐廳飲杯檸檬茶也會覺得浪漫。
女人在戀愛的初期是最容易哄, 而且要求很低, 忍耐力極強, 性格十分大方。

可惜, 女人愛把期望提高, 若男人要長期達標, 就必定要擁有萬二分的能耐。
到最後, 男人認為大部份的女人都是諸多要求, 愛發脾氣。
兩個人, 一個得寸進尺, 一個退而求其次, 結果大家愛到兩頭不到岸, 最後就只剩下一個"悶"字和一個"煩"字。
女人眼中的絕世好男友, 就是心細如塵, 懂得在適當的時候作出適當關懷的男人。

不是偏幫男人, 我認為可以做到以上這一點的確很難。
這是因為女人在不自覺地改變期望的同時, 往往不願給予對方一個清晰的指引。
女人 認為男人是有義務去預計自己的改變。
說到這裡, 我們會發現兩人要保持生活長久的精彩, 男女雙方都有責任。

女人除了要接受男人是懶惰的動物外, 亦不要誤解男人變悶的原因。
悶, 等於失去創意, 但並不等於把喜歡妳的程度降溫。
就是因為喜歡妳, 才會把妳視作家人, 才會把習慣成了自然。
如果男人是一個喜歡多采多姿, 日日懂得製造浪漫的人, 女人反而要提高警覺。
另一方面, 男人也要繼續發揮工作上的上進精神, 戒掉惰性, 把自己的才華和細心保持, 令你喜歡的人天天幸福。
要維持戀愛, 向來就是不簡單。

A friend of mine directed me to this article on a chinese forum. A lot of us (boys) agree with it. I'ma try and translate it to English. Forgive my poor translating skills. To cover the bases, the article is posted by
poemny from uwants.com

Girls think that the longer the boy is in love, the less emotion there is.

This situation can be split into 2 point of views.
The girls POV and the guy's POV.

From the girl's POV, after the relationship settles and is stable, the boy will become lazy.
The surprises and the creativity during the courtship is gone.
During the first few stages of being in the relatioship, the passion and emotions, are gone too.
The boys won't go out with them, and won't spend hours on the phone with you as often.
It get's more plain and dull the longer the relationship is.
In the end, the girl will find that a large number of the boys only want to hide at home and rest. Even going out for a meal is a chore to them.
The girls think that after the boys finally get into the relationship, there are no requirements anymore, no obligations.
This, is true.

The girls are just the opposite.
From the boy's POV, the longer the girl is in love/in a relationship, the more demanding she gets.
Ruring the courtship phase, when the girl is depressed or neglected, Even going out for a drink will be very romantic.
When the girl is in the initial stage of a relationship, her demands are low, she's very tolerant and open.
Sadly, girls have high expectations. If the guy wants a long term relationship, he must learn to be very, VERY tolerant and patient.
In the end, boys think that most girls have loads of demands and make a fuss/ get angry easily.

2 Persons, 1 wants more than he can get, the other backs off easily. In the end, the relationship is stuck in the middle, going nowhere, left with only boredom and frustration.
In the eys of a girl, the perfect guy is one who is very, very attentive, sensitive, and knows the suitable time to show her care and affection.
I think it is very difficult for a man who isn't leaning to one side to do the above things.
This is because when a girl unconsciously changes her expectation, at the same time, she does not give a sufficiently clear indication to the dude.

Girls think boys should already have the initiative to change themselves for the better.
In other words, girls think that boys should know what to do before the girl even hints at it.
Until here, we will realize that to ensure that life still sparkles/ is interesting, both the girl and dude have responsibilities.
Besides accepting that men are lazy, women also shouldn't misunderstand the reasons why men are seemingly bored with love.
Being bored means to lose a bit of creativity, but it does not equate to the boy lessing his love for the girl.
It's because the dude likes the girl, that he thinks of her as family, and the the normal habits come out naturally.
(You know..like how we treat our own family..we love them...but we don't show it)

If the guy is instead someone who wants everyday to be fun, upbeat and romantic, then the girl should be wary.

On the other hand, the man should know how to improve himself, get rid of lazyness, maintain his talent and sensitivity, and make the person you love feel grateful and happy every single day.

To maintain a relationship/ a love, is never easy.

The road to love is never straight.